Question: My wife isn’t a very affectionate woman and I have come to accept that with the hope that maybe she will change over time. 11 years later and she still gets really uncomfortable if I try to cuddle with her, hold her hand, or sit next to her. What gives?
Answer:Wow, I honor your level of allowance, acceptance and patience. Yet at the same time, it seems your needs are not being met, yes? What else is possible here that you’ve never considered or embraced?
Has something traumatic happened to her that has led to discomfort with your touch? Was her family not affectionate? Did something go array early in your marriage? SOMETHING seems to be going on for her to not even enjoy you holding her hand, yes?
True conscious would be in total allowance and non judgment while also being open to creating something that honors your truth, your requirements to be the real YOU. Have you talked to her about this? Have you seen counselors about this? Have you expressed without make-wrong, your desire to give and receive affectionate touch? Is she open to spiritual counseling with someone like me who doesn’t judge and can perhaps dissolve fears, blocks, trauma’s, conclusions and even terror that resides beneath the surface?
What I know for sure is that deep intimate connection includes many forms of communication including touch. I know there is great pleasure in exhaling all the way to the core of safety and security inside our soul… and sharing that surrender with a beloved. I know there is wondrous energy to share and circulate between loving couples that fuels a man’s legacy and awakens a woman’s radiance with grace, ease and deliciousness 😉
We can’t ever change someone who doesn’t want to change yet if you and your wife would like to connect with me at no charge for a complementary strategy session if you’re both 100% ready to change this, I’d love to see what’s possible and if you’re a fit for me to support a tender luscious sacred breakthrough in physical intimacy together. Apply at www.AllanaPratt.com/connect You can also have your wife learn more about me at www.AllanaPratt.com with my Vulnerability is the New Sexy complementary training. (My men’s How To Be A Noble Badass is found at www.GetHerToSayYes.com)
Anything is possible… keep your heart open 😉 Love, Allana xoox