It’s Impossible for Something to Work Out if You Don’t Try!

It seems like it’s an insult to life if you don’t try something. A waste of time and experience on earth.

To try, according to the dictionary, is to make an effort, to seek or look for something. It’s you walking in the dark and finding a direction or an exit.

It’s also you wanting to overcome a barrier in your life, the fear. Fear of what we can’t see, feel, or touch.

You know that job opportunity in another state? It’s time to try, to start something new, to learn to fend for yourself, to cook, to be independent and to make your own dinner.

I know the unknown is scary, that everything can go wrong, just as everything can go right.

Unfortunately, life is a subject of exact sciences that most people don’t understand. Its percentage is fifty-fifty, 50%. As they say, you already have the “no”, why not try to change that to “yes”?

Yes, it worked out. Yes, I succeeded. Yes, I won. Yes, I got this far. Yes, I overcame the obstacles. Yes!

It’s true that if somehow the change doesn’t make you happy, your family will be there, waiting for you with open arms, and new opportunities will arise. What you take away from every bad situation is experience and learning. Because make no mistake, there’s always that!

What about that thing with the guy you’re really into, and it’s been more than eight months? Why not give romance, a serious relationship, a chance?

It’s impossible for something to work out if you don’t try. Whether it will last for years, months or days, we don’t know for sure, but in those moments you will make history in the life of the other and together you will build memories, that’s a fact. Which, by the way, is very beautiful to imagine.

Don’t run away from the opportunities that life gives you. After all, it’s not a mother who insists and knocks on the door more than once for you to get up and move on.

The choice is yours.

Do you want to try or keep saying it’s impossible?

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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