How Intentional can we be about our Emotions? Can we actually PLAN them?
Grief Is Part of the Path
Grief doesn’t just show up when someone dies — it also arrives when things change, end, or don’t go the way we hoped.
Grief doesn’t just show up when someone dies — it also arrives when things change, end, or don’t go the way we hoped.
Way Back When…
The closing of one chapter and the opening of another.
The closing of one chapter and the opening of another.
Relational Leadership
It’s not about authority or control but about creating an environment where others can thrive—because when they do, so do you.
It’s not about authority or control but about creating an environment where others can thrive—because when they do, so do you.
More Than One Pair of Shoulders
If you’ve ever found yourself placing the full weight of your emotional needs on the shoulders of someone you love, I can assure that you are not broken.
If you’ve ever found yourself placing the full weight of your emotional needs on the shoulders of someone you love, I can assure that you are not broken.
Having a Blast: A Road Trip Story
I’m not easy to label, but “vagabond,” “nomad,” “gypsy,” or “desert rat” all catch pieces of me.
I’m not easy to label, but “vagabond,” “nomad,” “gypsy,” or “desert rat” all catch pieces of me.
Ohtani Let Go of the Rope
You can’t keep pulling if one side refuses to grip.
You can’t keep pulling if one side refuses to grip.
Let’s Fix the Language of Fatherhood
Word matter.
Word matter.
Man Is a Bridge for Man
If “Man is a bridge for man”, his super humanity is found in his friendships.
If “Man is a bridge for man”, his super humanity is found in his friendships.
Maybe It’s Time to Turn, Turn, Turn
Time marches on, seasons change, and what’s worked for me in the past may not work for me now.
Time marches on, seasons change, and what’s worked for me in the past may not work for me now.
Hitting Life Softer
At this stage in life if I’m not looking to hit anything in life harder.
At this stage in life if I’m not looking to hit anything in life harder.
The Granny Shot
Imagine how freeing it would be to shake off rigid cultural gender models.
Imagine how freeing it would be to shake off rigid cultural gender models.
I’m an Emotional Man, but Am I Emotionally Available?
My shutting down is in no way a reflection of my ability to feel deeply. It is merely a self-protective mechanism.
My shutting down is in no way a reflection of my ability to feel deeply. It is merely a self-protective mechanism.
How to Have a Meaningful Conversation
There are a lot of myths out there
There are a lot of myths out there
An Invitation to Be an Enlightened Hero
"These are the times that try men’s souls."
“These are the times that try men’s souls.”
Going With the Flow
I have this deep feeling of total connection with another human being.
I have this deep feeling of total connection with another human being.















