You are the author of your story.
About Tamara Vorster
The Year of Release: 6 Lessons 2025 Taught Me
For me, this year has been one of raw release.
For me, this year has been one of raw release.
The Alchemy of Becoming: What The Alchemist Taught Me About Life
This year, especially, has been a year of profound change.
This year, especially, has been a year of profound change.
Love, Recreated: How to Make It Last Against the Odds
So, where do we start?
So, where do we start?
When You Know, You Know: Rethinking Love, Marriage, and the Myth of ‘The One’
Then one day, I had that feeling.
Then one day, I had that feeling.
You Don’t See the World as It Is — You See It as You Are: The Science of Perception and Experience
Our lives are a story that we accept as reality.
Our lives are a story that we accept as reality.
None of This Was Part of the Plan — But Life Had a Better One
Trust the detour — it might be the path. A story about identity, self-worth, and what happens when the life you imagined falls apart.
Trust the detour — it might be the path. A story about identity, self-worth, and what happens when the life you imagined falls apart.
The Breakup Blueprint: Rebuilding, Rediscovering, and Thriving After Heartbreak
Make this time all about you.
Make this time all about you.
Acceptance: The Key To Being Free Of a Narcissistic Relationship
As I lay in the covers of darkness, listening to the ticking of the clock, I count my fingers to remind myself that this is only but a dream.
As I lay in the covers of darkness, listening to the ticking of the clock, I count my fingers to remind myself that this is only but a dream.
The Rollercoaster Ride of a Toxic Relationship
What goes up must eventually come down.
What goes up must eventually come down.
When Someone Shows You Who They Are, Believe Them the First Time
Take a deep breath. Look for the red flags. And then act on them.
Take a deep breath. Look for the red flags. And then act on them.
The Best Way to Find Out If You Can Trust Somebody Is to Trust Them
Trusting somebody is like handing them your heart for safekeeping.
Trusting somebody is like handing them your heart for safekeeping.
The Dreaded 3 Little Words: How to Know When It’s the Right Time to Say I Love You
There is no such thing as the right time to feel love and to express love — love has no boundaries, no timelines, and no rules. So why do we pretend otherwise?
There is no such thing as the right time to feel love and to express love — love has no boundaries, no timelines, and no rules. So why do we pretend otherwise?