Shared service is a calling to to make their community, their country, and the world a better place.
The Gift of Love. The Work of Love. The Fruit of Love
These delicious fruits will not be possible without putting in the required work.
These delicious fruits will not be possible without putting in the required work.
Don’t Assume. Don’t Judge. Don’t Blame
Having kindness invites the willingness to form loving human connection, person to person.
Having kindness invites the willingness to form loving human connection, person to person.
Tears
Tears helped to cleanse the sadness I had been holding.
Tears helped to cleanse the sadness I had been holding.
The Pressure to Be Perfect
Perfectionism, if fueled by fear of failure, is a full-time job.
Perfectionism, if fueled by fear of failure, is a full-time job.
Competing Against Yourself
A person who courts the danger of exploring the dark crevasses of his mind is courageous.
A person who courts the danger of exploring the dark crevasses of his mind is courageous.
Monogamy or Consensual Non-Monogamy–Which Is Right for You?
Lifestyle choices—as with all important choices a couple makes for their relationship—have consequences.
Lifestyle choices—as with all important choices a couple makes for their relationship—have consequences.
Love, Fear, and Hiding From Intimacy
Listen to the genuine voice of your heart.
Listen to the genuine voice of your heart.
Love and Friendship
For lasting love with the beloved partner in your life, begin by being the best friend you can be.
For lasting love with the beloved partner in your life, begin by being the best friend you can be.
Love is Dangerous
Real love demands that you expose your undefended heart and put your fragile ego on the line.
Real love demands that you expose your undefended heart and put your fragile ego on the line.
Fixer
Being present is very different than trying to be 'Mr. Fixit'.
Being present is very different than trying to be ‘Mr. Fixit’.
Being A ‘Good Boy’
Why do we go to these lengths to promote a false image of ourselves?
Why do we go to these lengths to promote a false image of ourselves?
Unsafe Women: Ballbusters
Our deepest feelings of vulnerability are associated with the woman in our life we are closest with.
Our deepest feelings of vulnerability are associated with the woman in our life we are closest with.
Right Relationship—Finding My Place Among the Generations
We are all points in an ever-evolving lineage.
We are all points in an ever-evolving lineage.
Wounds
In being a safe refuge to our partner, we also bring about the healing of our own wounds.
In being a safe refuge to our partner, we also bring about the healing of our own wounds.
Heroic Love
A man who commits to becoming a more loving person is a hero.
A man who commits to becoming a more loving person is a hero.