“Why? … I don’t even care about my feelings. … Anyway, everything is fine, I’ll be fine.”
Stop This Tragic Cycle in Your Relationship
In the end, I believe the best any of us can ever hope for is a partner who’s simply willing to keep showing up, who’s willing to learn how to do this wild dance of opposites with at least a little more grace and tenderness and flow and laughter and love than we experienced yesterday.
In the end, I believe the best any of us can ever hope for is a partner who’s simply willing to keep showing up, who’s willing to learn how to do this wild dance of opposites with at least a little more grace and tenderness and flow and laughter and love than we experienced yesterday.
Sometimes the Best Gift is Leaving Your Partner
Throughout my adult life, no woman ever broke up with me that I didn't want or even subtly encourage to leave.
Throughout my adult life, no woman ever broke up with me that I didn’t want or even subtly encourage to leave.
Tired Of Your Partner Not ‘Enthusiastically Choosing’ You?
Even many strong, independent people cling stubbornly to the fantasy that a partner will somehow complete you.
Even many strong, independent people cling stubbornly to the fantasy that a partner will somehow complete you.
In 100 Years…All New People
There’s something about being aware of that reality that completely shifts my perception of everybody around me and every so-called problem I might be facing.
There’s something about being aware of that reality that completely shifts my perception of everybody around me and every so-called problem I might be facing.
Do You Make Space for Your Most Inspired Work?
I really need SPACE to do my best creative work – not just physical space, but psychological, emotional, and especially TIME space.
I really need SPACE to do my best creative work – not just physical space, but psychological, emotional, and especially TIME space.
You Do Not Serve Anyone by Shrinking Yourself for Love
You cannot scare off a man - or anyone - who is genuinely ready to learn how to love all of you.
You cannot scare off a man – or anyone – who is genuinely ready to learn how to love all of you.
How To Get a Man Into His Heart
If you want your man to connect with his heart, model it by staying connected to yours. Allow yourself to fully feel what you feel, when you feel it.
If you want your man to connect with his heart, model it by staying connected to yours. Allow yourself to fully feel what you feel, when you feel it.
The 1 Misunderstanding That Routinely Kills Relationships
If her upset isn’t immediately understood and validated, she gets even more upset!
If her upset isn’t immediately understood and validated, she gets even more upset!
A Meditation on Trust and Surrender
If you're struggling in the face of challenge, adversity, pain, this meditation is profoundly comforting.
If you’re struggling in the face of challenge, adversity, pain, this meditation is profoundly comforting.
Male Checkout Syndrome
When a man is physically present but emotionally gone (and everyone loses).
When a man is physically present but emotionally gone (and everyone loses).
Is Your Relationship Experiencing a ‘Crisis of Connection’?
Intimate relationships only truly work when real connection is given highest priority.
Intimate relationships only truly work when real connection is given highest priority.
9 Uncommon Tips to Help You Thrive on Vacation with Your Partner
Intimate partners are not supposed to spend every waking moment of every day with each other!
Intimate partners are not supposed to spend every waking moment of every day with each other!
You Can’t be KING…Until You Embrace Your Feminine Energy
For many men, intimate relationships are “No Man’s Land.”
For many men, intimate relationships are “No Man’s Land.”
The Truth is Simple (Only Your Cover-ups Are Complicated)
"If I tell you the real truth about me, you won’t love me."
“If I tell you the real truth about me, you won’t love me.”
Kesha’s Grammy Performance Foreshadowed The Future Where Women Lead The Way
I’ve never been a fan ... but she just foreshadowed the world to come as powerful, brilliant WOMEN surrounded her while she angry-sang her song, “Praying.”
I’ve never been a fan … but she just foreshadowed the world to come as powerful, brilliant WOMEN surrounded her while she angry-sang her song, “Praying.”















