From Chaucer to Shakespeare to modern researchers, Steven Lake explores the romantic gesture and Valentine’s Day. Forget it at your peril!
Are You Afraid Of The “C” Word?
Dr. Steve explores not one, not two, but three “C” words and how they affect men’s ability to be in a long-lasting relationship
Are You Having Fun In Your Relationship?
The vagaries of life can teach us much. Steven Lake had a serious accident that brought a new level of fun into his life.
When Do You Decide Your Relationship Needs Help?
What does it take for a man to ask for help when his relationship needs support? A lot apparently.
Making A Relationship Gratitude List: How To Set A Positive Tone For The New Year
The easiest way to be happy in your relationship is to identify what makes you grateful about the other person. If the list is short you have to look harder . . . or for another person.
The Dirty Dozen: 12 Holiday Survival Tips This Christmas Season
Steven Lake gives us some tips on how to chill during the holiday rush – without booze or drugs!
5 Reasons Why Dining Out Is Good For Your Relationship
Steven Lake expounds on the unexpected virtues of dining out with your loved one. It can be a relationship saver.
7 Reasons Why People Stay In Unhealthy Relationships
Dr. Steve examines why leaving a dysfunctional relationship is so difficult. It’s deeper than you think.
Contemplating The Death Of My Relationship
To appreciate what you have, sometimes you have to imagine life without it.
Spicing Up Your Relationship With Micro-vacations
Strapped for time? Want a holiday with your loved one? Steven Lake shows how less can be more with a micro-vacation.
Hugging Your Way To Happiness And Relationship Success
Dr. Steve shows us that hugging not only feels good, it can improve your overall health and relationship happiness.
7 Reasons for not Giving 100% in Your Relationship
Dr. Steve gives a tongue-in-cheek look at why giving 100% in your relationship is a waste of time and of effort.
Does Sex Sometimes Feel Like It Is More Effort Than It’s Worth?
There comes a time in every couple’s life when not having sex seems a better idea than having it. Dr. Steve explores how we are affected by the external world and how to manage these intrusions.
10 Things I’ve Learned In Long-term Relationships
There are reasons, beyond biology, why you want to be in a long-term relationship. Dr. Steve shares ten wins that time gave him.
How Much Attention Should You Give Your Wife?
Does “emotional vampire” come to mind when you think of your wife’s need for attention? If so, Dr. Steve suggests you look in the mirror and see if there is a reflection.
Sure, You Have Money, But Do You Have A Life?
Sometimes, getting ahead means falling behind in your relationship. Steven Lake examines the choice between Lifestyle and Money. Or is it a choice?









