The relationship patterns I refused to see until they became impossible to ignore.
About Paul Trood
How You Can Get Exactly What You Want From an Avoidant (Without Abandoning Yourself)
Because it’s more straightforward than previously thought.
Because it’s more straightforward than previously thought.
When to Say ‘No’ to a Fearful Avoidant’s Barrage of Questions
And why you’re not obligated to tell them every single little thing.
And why you’re not obligated to tell them every single little thing.
The Reason You Keep Picking Avoidants
It’s not always about your attachment style — there’s something else going on behind the scenes
It’s not always about your attachment style — there’s something else going on behind the scenes
Are You Attracting Love or Just Repeating Your Trauma?
4 keys you can use to unlock real love and ditch the toxic relationships for good.
4 keys you can use to unlock real love and ditch the toxic relationships for good.
Why Anxious Men Have Such a Hard Time Finding Love
Your fear of rejection is stronger than your desire for connection — and here’s how to change that
Your fear of rejection is stronger than your desire for connection — and here’s how to change that
The Anxious Attachment Trap in Relationships: Cling, Chase, Collapse
Stop the cycle and start consistency.
Stop the cycle and start consistency.
Some Avoidants Are Desperate to Get Married
Because these days marriage doesn’t hold weight, so why not abuse the commitment?
Because these days marriage doesn’t hold weight, so why not abuse the commitment?
3 Things I Blatantly Ignored About Dating
How the same advice you’re listening to is keeping you stuck in toxic cycles.
How the same advice you’re listening to is keeping you stuck in toxic cycles.
The Life Cycle of an ‘Emotional Foster Partner’
3 phases that keep you burnt out and left with nothing — and how to stop it.
3 phases that keep you burnt out and left with nothing — and how to stop it.
Why She Won’t Come Over
Because sometimes it has nothing to do with what you say and everything to do with what you have going on.
Because sometimes it has nothing to do with what you say and everything to do with what you have going on.
All Human Relationships Secretly Run on Code — You Just Don’t Realize It Yet
3 unexpected concepts that technology, programming, and logic can teach us about love.
3 unexpected concepts that technology, programming, and logic can teach us about love.
Why You Don’t Have to Have Them All Figured Out
Because energy never lies — how to tell if you’re headed for a dead-end relationship without over thinking it.
Because energy never lies — how to tell if you’re headed for a dead-end relationship without over thinking it.
Stop Blaming the Dating Scene (Start Blaming Your Habits)
And what you can do to change it.
And what you can do to change it.
Avoidants Always Pick the Worst Possible Time to Date (And You Pay the Price)
An unorthodox way of easily spotting emotionally unavailable partners.
An unorthodox way of easily spotting emotionally unavailable partners.
How Romantic Attraction Actually Works
You’re not as in control as you’d like to be, but there is a way to take it back.
You’re not as in control as you’d like to be, but there is a way to take it back.