Mirror, validate, reframe: The delicate dance of Imago.
How to Stop Fighting the Last Battle
To change your life, see where you repeat yourself.
To change your life, see where you repeat yourself.
How to Date If You Don’t Want a Relationship
Be extra-ethical and tres transparent.
Be extra-ethical and tres transparent.
This Vintage Thought Experiment Will Change How You Date
Feel the burn of the eternal return.
Feel the burn of the eternal return.
7 Unusually Hardcore Books About Meditation
Have some brain science, Pragmatic Dharma, and vision quests with your mindfulness practice.
Have some brain science, Pragmatic Dharma, and vision quests with your mindfulness practice.
The Ultimate Guide to Limerence: Everything You Ever Wanted to Know
What limerence is, how it feels, and how it ends.
What limerence is, how it feels, and how it ends.
9 Things Emotionally Abused Men Need to Hear
It is that bad, it’s not your fault, and it does get better — if you make this one essential move.
It is that bad, it’s not your fault, and it does get better — if you make this one essential move.
7 Things to Do When You’re Done Dirty
How to make sense of betrayal trauma — even when you’d rather not
How to make sense of betrayal trauma — even when you’d rather not
9 Exhausting Effects of Falling in Love With Your Misery
It might be a bad idea to define yourself by your suffering
It might be a bad idea to define yourself by your suffering
How to Take Charge of Your Fate
Try it and see what happens.
Try it and see what happens
How to Use the News so You No Longer Feel Powerless
If you feel powerless over current events, do this now.
If you feel powerless over current events, do this now.
Why Leaders Aren’t Afraid to Follow Fashion
Changing your style could save your life.
Changing your style could save your life.
How to Meet Your Monster: When You Reclaim What You Hate, Life Gets Good
Keep your friends close, your enemies closer, and your monster riding shotgun.
Keep your friends close, your enemies closer, and your monster riding shotgun.
The Power of Practice: How to Become What You Do Every Day
What I learned from writing 750 words a day, every day, for five years.
What I learned from writing 750 words a day, every day, for five years.
9 Quotes from Georges Bataille to Fuel the Fire in Your Belly
France’s hottest renegade philosopher insists on changing your life.
France’s hottest renegade philosopher insists on changing your life.
9 Quotes from de Sade to Spark Your Sympathy for the Devil Inside
The namesake of sadism can help you understand your shadow.
The namesake of sadism can help you understand your shadow.