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About Shefali O'Hara
None of Us Is Entitled to Love
Even though some of us act like we are.
Even though some of us act like we are.
Dealing With Cancer as a Single Woman
I was terrified at first, then pleasantly surprised.
I was terrified at first, then pleasantly surprised.
Open Your Mind, Think for Yourself
Be wary of anyone trying to sell you something.
Be wary of anyone trying to sell you something.
I’m Alive Because I Listened to Myself
The doctors thought I would be dead long ago.
The doctors thought I would be dead long ago.
Stay Fat, Live Longer
Advice based on science, not the fashion industry.
Advice based on science, not the fashion industry.
What Does It Mean to Love?
Different types of love and how they manifest in real life.
Different types of love and how they manifest in real life.
Letting Mom Win at Cards
Playing cards helps her brain; letting her win helps her laugh.
Playing cards helps her brain; letting her win helps her laugh.
When Your Friends Have Kids
How to maintain adult friendships with parents.
How to maintain adult friendships with parents.
Plotting Against My Racist Neighbor
How not to win friends and influence people.
How not to win friends and influence people.
It’s Ok to Be Fat. It’s Ok to Be Thin.
It’s not OK to be cruel.
It’s not OK to be cruel.
What Is Love?
And what is necessary for a healthy relationship?
And what is necessary for a healthy relationship?
Mental Manipulation and Conformity
Most people are influenced by the group.
Most people are influenced by the group.
Doctors Kept Telling Me I Was Going to Die
So far, I just keep proving them wrong.
So far, I just keep proving them wrong.
If God Loves Us, Why Do We Suffer?
In the Bible, those God loves most still experience pain.
In the Bible, those God loves most still experience pain.
Truth, Reality, and Perception
When push comes to shove, would you get on a plane designed according to “personal truth” or actual physics?
When push comes to shove, would you get on a plane designed according to “personal truth” or actual physics?