While we like men, we don’t really need them.
About Shefali O'Hara
Does Positive Thinking Actually Work?
It can if you do it right.
It can if you do it right.
The Kindness of Friends Keeps Me Going
I didn’t realize I could survive cancer alone.
I didn’t realize I could survive cancer alone.
Emotions Are a Bad Way to Make Decisions
Things I’ve learned the hard way.
Things I’ve learned the hard way.
My Weight Loss Journey
Sometimes it’s two steps forward, one step back.
Sometimes it’s two steps forward, one step back.
Truth, Compassion and Tolerance
How to be a good person.
How to be a good person.
Spoiled Boys and Toxic Masculinity
Are we creating more narcissists?
Are we creating more narcissists?
I Ironed His Handkerchiefs
I remember telling an acquaintance about how I ironed my husband’s handkerchiefs. She immediately got this look of disgust.
I remember telling an acquaintance about how I ironed my husband’s handkerchiefs. She immediately got this look of disgust.
The Healing Power of Pets
Having them probably helped me survive cancer twice already.
Having them probably helped me survive cancer twice already.
Mom Didn’t Want More Children
She was happy with her life, and her parents weren’t inclined to push her.
She was happy with her life, and her parents weren’t inclined to push her.
One Reason Men Lie
And one way to get him to be honest, if you’re prepared for it.
And one way to get him to be honest, if you’re prepared for it.
The Difference Between Being Nice and Being Kind
Why only one is needful.
Why only one is needful.
My Doctor Told Me I Was Charting the Unknown
How being a "bitch" may be saving my life.
How being a “bitch” may be saving my life.
I’ve Dated Jealous Men
This is how I dealt with their control issues.
This is how I dealt with their control issues.
Respect Your Partner
When you respect yourself and others, it’s easier to have authentic, genuine relationships. Why settle for anything less?
When you respect yourself and others, it’s easier to have authentic, genuine relationships. Why settle for anything less?
Gaslighting — What Is It?
One of the tactics commonly used by NPDs is gaslighting, though other people can also do it.
One of the tactics commonly used by NPDs is gaslighting, though other people can also do it.