Grandfather’s radical view of girls.
About Shefali O'Hara
Jealousy Has No Place in a Relationship
Don’t let it hurt you and take up your energy.
Don’t let it hurt you and take up your energy.
He Yelled at My Doctor
And helped to save my life.
And helped to save my life.
Giving Without Feeling Deprived
Charity with an open heart, without resentment.
Charity with an open heart, without resentment.
The Cost of Compassion and Dreams
Why it’s necessary to break the budget sometimes.
Why it’s necessary to break the budget sometimes.
Stop Objectifying Men!
Dating, double standards and what makes us happy.
Dating, double standards and what makes us happy.
Dating After Forty
We all have baggage — and that’s OK.
We all have baggage — and that’s OK.
How My Cat Helped Me Conquer Cancer
People think that cats bond with places, not people. This was not true with ours.
People think that cats bond with places, not people. This was not true with ours.
I Have One Breast, Yet I Date
What is really strange, but wonderful — I enjoy dating now more than I ever did before.
What is really strange, but wonderful — I enjoy dating now more than I ever did before.
Rape, Concentration Camps and the Trolley Problem
Situational ethics on a personal and societal level.
Situational ethics on a personal and societal level.
Facing the Holidays Alone
The times I still feel angry at my ex.
The times I still feel angry at my ex.
Meat: To Eat or Not
The morality of factory farming.
The morality of factory farming.
Who Pays on Dates?
Fairness, equality and social reality.
Fairness, equality and social reality.
Don’t Beg, Take
This is going to sound harsh, but some of us, particularly women, turn ourselves into martyrs. I’ve been there myself.
This is going to sound harsh, but some of us, particularly women, turn ourselves into martyrs. I’ve been there myself.
Men Screw Up Female Friendships
But it’s our choice to let them.
But it’s our choice to let them.