Because you would do it for me
The Only Person You Should Take Advice From
No, it’s not anyone older and wiser.
No, it’s not anyone older and wiser.
Mindy Kaling and the Ozempic Rumors: Let’s Talk!
I’m not one to talk about people’s bodies. But I am one to talk about people who talk about people’s bodies.
I’m not one to talk about people’s bodies. But I am one to talk about people who talk about people’s bodies.
Modern Men Should Know This About Modern Women
We are constantly analyzing, assessing, evaluating, and processing to keep ourselves safe and it is exhausting.
We are constantly analyzing, assessing, evaluating, and processing to keep ourselves safe and it is exhausting.
The Goal of a First Date Isn’t to Get a Second One
Most of us want to be liked, even if we don’t like the person seated across from us. We like to “win”, even if we don’t care for the “prize”… and even with dating.
Most of us want to be liked, even if we don’t like the person seated across from us. We like to “win”, even if we don’t care for the “prize”… and even with dating.
The New Age Mr. Nice Guy: What Lies Beneath
What he’s not telling you…
What he’s not telling you…
The Ultimate Breakup Playlist for Each Stage of Grief
When you think of music, you might think of a stage, but not a stage of grief. The soundtrack to your emotional rollercoaster awaits — Black Girl Magic edition.
When you think of music, you might think of a stage, but not a stage of grief. The soundtrack to your emotional rollercoaster awaits — Black Girl Magic edition.
Pause — A Poem on Slowing Down
My first accident: I hit pause. He hit play and in a second, our worlds clashed.
My first accident: I hit pause. He hit play and in a second, our worlds clashed.
I Was Going to Write About ‘Love is Blind’, but I Didn’t
I’m not perfect.
I’m not perfect.
4 Questions You Should Ask Before Being Exclusive
Uncovering what needs we will exclusively meet and provide is the whole point of the dating phase. What’s the rush to be “official”?
Uncovering what needs we will exclusively meet and provide is the whole point of the dating phase. What’s the rush to be “official”?
Your African Upbringing Is Getting in the Way of a Healthy Relationship
Women like their men “strong” and men like their women “good”. You saw it, you lived it, you internalized it. Now it’s time to unlearn it.
Women like their men “strong” and men like their women “good”. You saw it, you lived it, you internalized it. Now it’s time to unlearn it.
The Art of Modern Dating: Whoever Cares Less, Wins
Date one person and see where it goes
Date one person and see where it goes
The One Thing That Makes Dating Suck and What You Can Do to Make it Better
Approach dating with a little more human empathy and compassion. Take risks, be bold.
Approach dating with a little more human empathy and compassion. Take risks, be bold.
They Say Hurt People Hurt People, but Who Started the Cycle?
The short answer: people who lack self-awareness.
The short answer: people who lack self-awareness.
Medium Might Be the Fast Food of Literature and if You’re a Writer, You Might Be Part of the Problem.
Do I want to add value to readers; or contribute to digital clutter?
Do I want to add value to readers; or contribute to digital clutter?
30 Under 30: Lessons From When Life Did Me Dirty
Never regret the fight you fought when you thought it was love.
Never regret the fight you fought when you thought it was love.














