I wasn’t blind. I had an explanation for everything. That’s the part nobody warns you about.
Sex & Relationships
How to Make Modern Dating Feel Easier
Dating burnout—not dating apps alone—may be the biggest obstacle standing between you and lasting love.
Dating burnout—not dating apps alone—may be the biggest obstacle standing between you and lasting love.
I Was Labeled a Narcissist by My Ex-Husband’s Therapist
The deeper reflections it led me to, and why I’m sharing this now.
The deeper reflections it led me to, and why I’m sharing this now.
When You’re Scared of Losing Connection, Anger Can Take Over
Most anxiously attached people are not trying to create conflict. They’re trying to protect themselves from emotional disconnection.
Most anxiously attached people are not trying to create conflict. They’re trying to protect themselves from emotional disconnection.
13 Proper Ways to Vent in a Relationship Without Hurting Each Other
Every couple gets frustrated sometimes. Healthy relationships learn how to express those feelings without tearing each other apart.
Every couple gets frustrated sometimes. Healthy relationships learn how to express those feelings without tearing each other apart.
What Emotionally Strong Men Never Do in Relationships
Being emotionally strong doesn’t mean feeling less. It means everyone else in the room feels more.
Being emotionally strong doesn’t mean feeling less. It means everyone else in the room feels more.
Your Partnership is Extraordinary
And it might still have to end.
And it might still have to end.
The Mountain Didn’t Care That I Forgot My Toothbrush
What a plant medicine ceremony taught me about hyper-vigilance, aging, and surrender.
What a plant medicine ceremony taught me about hyper-vigilance, aging, and surrender.
Why Narcissists Propose Big Commitments Suspiciously Fast
"Let's move in together" by date three isn't romance. It's a hostage negotiation.
“Let’s move in together” by date three isn’t romance. It’s a hostage negotiation.
The Promise I Heard Anyway
He once told me: I’ve never liked anyone the way I like you.
He once told me: I’ve never liked anyone the way I like you.
It’s My Fault I Kept Getting Cheated On
People say it’s my fault I’ve been cheated on by multiple people, and they’re not wrong.
People say it’s my fault I’ve been cheated on by multiple people, and they’re not wrong.
The 3 Word Text a Narcissist Always Sends Right Before Your First Date
It sounds excited. It's actually a compliance test. Here's what to watch for
It sounds excited. It’s actually a compliance test. Here’s what to watch for
Can You Love Someone Deeply and Still Not Be Right for Them?
But love is also not incompatible with incompatibility.
But love is also not incompatible with incompatibility.
What Marriage Was Really Protecting
Marriage was not invented for the couple.
Marriage was not invented for the couple.
The Spice Rack Theory of Love: Why the “Happily Ever After” is a Trap
And the spice rack falls off the wall.
And the spice rack falls off the wall.
My Friend Tricked Me Into Going on a Date!
Can a friendship survive after one person mistakes a friendly outing for something more?
A friend turned lunch into a surprise date. Can the friendship be saved after rejection and broken trust?