Remembering to fail forward…
A Solid Sense of Peace
What primordial masculinity feels like.
After years of studying Zen meditation, I’ve made a lot of progress. Lately though, I’ve regressed, and decided to study something that many say is a very powerful spiritual practice. It’s so powerful that some insist that purification of character is necessary before even taking up the practice. Hoping that my previous Zen practice…
Sniping
How narcissists control your circle of friends...
How narcissists control your circle of friends…
New Roots: 100 Words (Exactly) on Social Change
"May the stars become every shade of eye and the stripes be every shade of forearm."
“May the stars become every shade of eye and the stripes be every shade of forearm.”
Minding The Birds: Why Men Appear Scary to Women
It never occurred to me that anyone would see me as a potential abuser because I had no intention of abusing anyone. More importantly, I had no idea how much abuse was actually going on.
It never occurred to me that anyone would see me as a potential abuser because I had no intention of abusing anyone. More importantly, I had no idea how much abuse was actually going on.
As You Would Love Yourself
Why sexual assault is not "flattering"...
Why sexual assault is not “flattering”…
Communication Breakdown
What we're really saying when we silence women...
What we’re really saying when we silence women…
Responsibility Tennis: How to Avoid Blameshifting
Become immune to this Sith mind trick...
Become immune to this Sith mind trick…
How to Release Butterflies
This is how adults let go. With grace...
This is how adults let go. With grace…
Hang On Tightly, Let Go Lightly: 100 Words (Exactly) on Social Change
Nobody is coming to take your country. Your country was stolen for you. No one is asking that you hang for it. Just share it.
Nobody is coming to take your country. Your country was stolen for you. No one is asking that you hang for it. Just share it.
The Elephant in the Television
Why abusers shouldn't stay famous...
Why abusers shouldn’t stay famous…
Emotional Liens: The Narcissist’s Way of Dealing with Problems
They start an argument, and the purpose of the argument is to create a debt.
They start an argument, and the purpose of the argument is to create a debt.
Open Arms Like Fruiting Branches
100 words (exactly) on love...
100 words (exactly) on love…
Smokescreens
A narcissist's second favorite tool...
A narcissist’s second favorite tool…
Sexual Harassment of Men
Yes, it sometimes happens. Here's how to recognize when a woman is sexually harassing you.
Yes, it sometimes happens. Here’s how to recognize when a woman is sexually harassing you.
Rough Play
What it teaches boys and why we need it.
What it teaches boys and why we need it.