— Q. So last year I found out my boyfriend of nine years was having an emotional affair, sending texts to other girls he shouldn’t have, and generally being pretty douchey. I found this out because I read texts between him and his male best friend talking about this stuff. I know, a massive breach…
Ask Erin: My Partner’s Father Hates Me
I am scared that my partner’s father will always hate me and that one day my partner will resent me for causing him to be distant from his family.
I am scared that my partner’s father will always hate me and that one day my partner will resent me for causing him to be distant from his family.
Why Are We So Scared Of Money?
No matter how much I’ve scraped together in a month, it always feels like the number that comes up will never be high enough.
No matter how much I’ve scraped together in a month, it always feels like the number that comes up will never be high enough.
5 Things I’ve Learned Dating In My 30s
Dating in my 30’s is not like dating in my 20’s in several ways.
Dating in my 30’s is not like dating in my 20’s in several ways.
Why I Brag About My Divorce
While I don’t introduce myself as “Hi I’m Nisha, and I’m divorced,” I do reveal this fact relatively quickly; actually, I brag about it.
While I don’t introduce myself as “Hi I’m Nisha, and I’m divorced,” I do reveal this fact relatively quickly; actually, I brag about it.
Navigating the Delusions of a Loved One
I’ve wondered over the years if there was something else we could have done — some way we could have helped her — if there was something else I could have said that would have led to a different outcome.
I’ve wondered over the years if there was something else we could have done — some way we could have helped her — if there was something else I could have said that would have led to a different outcome.
4 Ways To Get The Most Out Of Your Therapy Appointment
Remember that therapy is just one small part of your overall mental (and physical, because that mind-body shit is serious business) wellbeing.
Remember that therapy is just one small part of your overall mental (and physical, because that mind-body shit is serious business) wellbeing.
Why You Shouldn’t Neglect Physical Self-Care
Whatever self-care you choose, own it.
Whatever self-care you choose, own it.
Emergency Self-Care: Tips For Loving Yourself During A Crisis
If you can manage it, go to sleep.
If you can manage it, go to sleep.
The 6 Biggest Myths About Self-Care
Self-care. It's that magical moment in time when you get to just take care of YOU.
Self-care. It’s that magical moment in time when you get to just take care of YOU.
Stop Beating Yourself Up — You’re Doing Your Best
Intellectually, I understood that my perfectionism was —is— toxic and unhealthy, but emotionally I believed that the reason my life and mind felt so chaotic was because I had yet again failed to be perfect.
Intellectually, I understood that my perfectionism was —is— toxic and unhealthy, but emotionally I believed that the reason my life and mind felt so chaotic was because I had yet again failed to be perfect.
Voice Lessons: Why I Speak Without Raising My Hand
This is how girls grow silent: we question whether anyone wants to hear what we have to say and then assume no one will believe what we say is true.
This is how girls grow silent: we question whether anyone wants to hear what we have to say and then assume no one will believe what we say is true.
Ask Erin: Will I Lose My Fiance To Rehab?
What can I do for us to have a healthy, better, successful life and future marriage?
What can I do for us to have a healthy, better, successful life and future marriage?
On Being A Spinster In 2019
Even though I’ve never had difficulty meeting men, when I look back over my dating roster, I’m not exactly sad that none of them stuck around.
Even though I’ve never had difficulty meeting men, when I look back over my dating roster, I’m not exactly sad that none of them stuck around.
OCD Isn’t An Anxiety Disorder – Here’s Why That Matters
The failure to recognize distinct symptoms, points to just how poorly OCD is understood.
The failure to recognize distinct symptoms, points to just how poorly OCD is understood.
How Interracial Friendships Impact Black Female Mental Health
It saddens me that I must have a prescreening process when selecting white friends, but my mental health is more important than someone else’s comfort.
It saddens me that I must have a prescreening process when selecting white friends, but my mental health is more important than someone else’s comfort.